The Healing Game: Stories About Recovery, Not Conquest

    Most stories are about winning. Defeating the enemy. Conquering the challenge. Achieving the goal. But there’s a different kind of story emerging-one that’s quietly radical: Stories about healing. About restoration. About the slow, non-linear process of becoming whole again. Not conquest. Recovery. And these narratives are resonating deeply because they reflect something conquest narratives can’t: the actual shape of human healing. The Hero’s Journey vs. The Healing Journey Traditional Hero’s Journey: Call to adventure Trials and challenges Climactic confrontation Victory/transformation Return changed Structure: Linear, escalating, culminating in a decisive moment ...

    February 26, 2025 · 8 min · Rafiul Alam

    Nostalgia as Narrative Engine: Longing for Places That Never Existed

    Close your eyes and think about “the good old days.” Notice something? They’re sun-dappled. Slightly blurry. Emotionally warm. The music is just right. The colors are saturated but gentle. Now ask yourself: Did it really look like that? Or does memory edit with a generous hand? Nostalgia is one of the most powerful narrative engines in storytelling. It’s also one of the trickiest-because the past we’re nostalgic for often never existed. ...

    February 25, 2025 · 8 min · Rafiul Alam

    Upcycling for Beginners: Turning Trash into 'Aesthetic' Home Decor

    Deeply Personal Current: Upcycling for Beginners Previous All Posts Next Upcycling for Beginners: Turning Trash into ‘Aesthetic’ Home Decor I was about to throw away a cereal box the other day when my wife stopped me. ...

    February 25, 2025 · 10 min · Rafiul Alam

    The Pastoral Fantasy: Why We Romanticize Rural Life

    You’ve never grown a tomato. You’ve never milked a cow. You’ve never lived without high-speed internet or same-day delivery. And yet, you’re spending 100 hours in Stardew Valley living a life you’ve never experienced and probably never will. Why? Because the pastoral fantasy isn’t about actual rural life. It’s about what we imagine rural life represents: simplicity, authenticity, connection, and escape from the alienation of modern existence. Let’s dissect why the idealized countryside has such narrative power-and what we’re really longing for. ...

    February 24, 2025 · 8 min · Rafiul Alam

    Cozy Games and Emotional Safety: Creating Comfort Without Conflict

    The world is exhausting. Politics are polarizing. Social media is performative. Work is demanding. The news is relentless. And then you open Animal Crossing and spend two hours arranging flowers. This isn’t escapism. It’s sanctuary. Welcome to the rise of cozy games-narratives and experiences deliberately designed to create emotional safety without traditional conflict. And understanding why they work reveals profound insights about what audiences actually need from stories. What Makes a Game (or Story) “Cozy”? “Cozy” isn’t just an aesthetic (though cottagecore visuals and soft color palettes often feature). It’s a design philosophy prioritizing comfort, safety, and low-pressure engagement. ...

    February 23, 2025 · 7 min · Rafiul Alam

    Designing a 'Slow Morning' Routine Before Opening Your Laptop

    Deeply Personal Current: Designing a Slow Morning Routine Dopamine Fasting 101 All Posts Upcycling for Beginners Designing a ‘Slow Morning’ Routine Before Opening Your Laptop For the first two years of working remotely, my morning routine looked like this: ...

    February 23, 2025 · 10 min · Rafiul Alam

    Slice of Life as Narrative Genre: The Drama of the Everyday

    “So… what happens in this story?” “People live their lives.” “And then?” “They keep living.” “That’s it?” “That’s everything.” This conversation encapsulates the bewildering beauty of slice-of-life narratives. They’re stories where “nothing happens” except everything that matters. What Is Slice-of-Life? Slice-of-life is a narrative genre that focuses on everyday experiences, mundane activities, and the small dramas of ordinary existence. There’s no quest. No villain. No ticking clock. No chosen one. ...

    February 22, 2025 · 7 min · Rafiul Alam

    Dopamine Fasting 101: How to Reset Your Brain in a Hyper-Connected World

    Deeply Personal Current: Dopamine Fasting 101 Zero Waste on a Budget All Posts Next Dopamine Fasting 101: How to Reset Your Brain in a Hyper-Connected World My wife and I were sitting on the couch the other night, supposedly “relaxing” after dinner. ...

    February 21, 2025 · 10 min · Rafiul Alam

    The Anti-Epic: Why Saving the World Doesn't Matter Here

    The world is ending. Again. The ancient evil has awakened. The chosen one must gather the seven crystals. The fate of humanity rests on your shoulders. We’ve heard this story a thousand times. And while epic narratives have their place, there’s a quiet revolution happening in storytelling: narratives where the world isn’t ending, where the stakes are small, and where the emotional payoff is somehow bigger. Welcome to the anti-epic. ...

    February 21, 2025 · 7 min · Rafiul Alam

    Basecamp's Shape Up: The Alternative to Scrum You've Been Looking For

    You’ve been doing Scrum for years. Two-week sprints. Daily standups. Story points. Sprint planning. Retrospectives. And it’s exhausting. The sprints feel arbitrary. The planning meetings drag on. The backlog is a graveyard of ideas no one will ever build. You’re shipping, but it feels like running on a treadmill. What if there’s a better way? In 2019, Basecamp published “Shape Up”-their alternative to Scrum. The core idea: Work in 6-week cycles (not 2-week sprints) Fixed time, variable scope (not fixed scope, variable time) No backlog (ideas don’t pile up forever) Betting, not planning (leadership commits to ideas worth doing) Shaping, not speccing (rough outlines, not detailed specs) It’s radically different from Scrum. ...

    February 20, 2025 · 11 min · Rafiul Alam